"Check out the Kegelmaster. Check w/ your doctor before you purchase one to make sure it's okay to use. Get one w/ a money back guarantee. Check w/ the urologist to see if it would do harm. Google Kegelmaster to learn as much as use can. Good luck and swift healing."

"Hi-
I am 31 and I had a terrible bladder injury after I gave birth. The nurses and my OB let me go home from the hospital when I was in pain and they did not measure my urine. I had to go to the ER two days later and almost died due to the amount of fluid in my bladder. They drained 4.5 liters in the hospital and 2.5 liters came out later at home in the foley catheter. That was nearly 12 pounds of urine trapped in my bladder. The catheter stayed in for two weeks, and then I had to see the urologist. I have been on bladder training for amost two months. I have to try to go on my own, and then insert a small mini- catheter into my urethra to drain the rest. I now have problems with bluging tissue which I believe is my bladder. I also have discomfort along with back cramps. I am upset by the way my OB and urologist seem to pass the buck when it comes to taking the next step to fix my bladder. My OB is not seeing patients because she is having problems with her 4th pregnancy. SO, I am trying to get someone to diagnose me with a prolapsed bladder. It is terrible that I was a very healthy, active person before and during my pregnancy, and yet the doctors are so passive about helping me return to my normal self. I guess I have to become irrational during my next appointments to be heard. I would love to hear some advice! "

"I am 33 years old ans have a 3rd degree prolapse bladder which also pulled my uterus down. I had surgery over a year ago by a gyn doctor which is recommended better for this problem. I had the stitch surgery and it however did not stay. But i can say that prolapse has caused me lots of discomfort and pains cramps and lower back pain so yes it is part of the process i guess you could say. if you are in your younger years and decide on surgery go with the sling or mesh procedure because i have found out that most people that have the stitch surgery does not stay. and have them go through the abdomin if you plan on having more childeren because i have now found out that the vaginal incision can complicate another delivery which i am finding out to late. So i recommend you to see a ob/gyn doctor."